One of the things my coach asks is what I am doing for GAL. He wanted to make sure that I was doing things that I was interested in doing and NOT what I thought my WIFE would be wanting me to do or what my WIFE would be interested in. This confirms my thoughts on "be myself".
This is also very useful to read. As I am guilty of thinking what can I do as a GAL activity that would impress wife / compete with OM. Not good!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
