If she doesn't like my moves, I will find out sooner or later. In the mean time, I will feel much more comfortable being myself instead of who I am told I should be or who a book tells me I should be or what I think I should change into.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying not to make changes. I am absolutely convinced that there are changes that I needed to make and continue to carry out. I also am certain that I will continue to make changes and adjustments as I learn more. I am open to criticism and counsel. But I also know that my wife was attracted to ME and NOT some other person into whom I could try to become. I need to be MYSELF, but the improved version.
