Also I need advice on something. So currently we have shared custody and when the kids go to his house they are very upset and sad because they are not seeing me. They often cry for an hour before bed.
This was his weekend with the kids, but the kids didnt want to stay with him and he said to me last night that during this time ( meaning not sure what will happen with us) that we shouldn't force the kids to stay at his house unless they want too.
The kids are already so confused. First he moves out and visits the kids, then he moves back in with us, now hes out Again and we had very strict custody rules and now he's flopping again saying the kids should chose. This is just so confusing for them. I don't know if I should make him stick to the rules or not. I want what's best for my kids
H:37 W:37 M:10 years D:7&5 Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out H moved back 12/23/12-not going well Retrouvaille 1/18 H moving out again 3/14
