It is disappointing that H continues to be so lost and clueless. I am constantly reminding myself that he is trying to work through all his stuff in his own way, on his own timetable. It's such a long and frustrating process though.
I can't stand all the sneaking around and secrecy. I often wonder how I would ever trust him again given that he has lied about so much for so long.
I didn't even think about the scenario of him sneaking clothes out because he plans on moving out. (I was thinking more it had to do with his trip next weekend) I have believed that his time for even thinking about moving out has passed. But I guess anything is possible with these guys.
When I first read your post, I initially felt upset about the thought of him leaving. And then I thought to myself - why? I'm the one who has suggested he leave in previous conversations. I think what upset me is the thought of him being so underhanded and sneaky right under my nose. I continue to lose respect for him with each passing day.
I had already given his closet a quick scan days ago to see if he packed anything unusual. Nothing really stuck out to me.
At this point, if he wants to leave, then there is the door. I'm sure as hell not going to beg him to stay.
That's what hard about him being here. I try to detach from his nonsense as much as possible, but feel like i need to keep one eye on my back to make sure he's not doing anything harmful. It svcks.
Anyway...
I woke up last night to the sound of H violently vomiting downstairs. Now he has what S4 has. Really hoping S2 and I will not get sick!
Have a good Sunday everyone. The sun is shining here
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
