Waw and divorce filed. What to do next?

[Pumpkinhead]

I know things that I should have done or not have done over the course of our relationship. I know there are things she could have done as well. I do wish we could have worked on this marriage together, but that seems like an impossibility at this time.

So at this point I am still working on myself, mentally, physically, and emotionally. My relationship with my daughter from my first marriage is better then ever. I try to be a better person, and father everyday.

I'm half way done with DB book, finished DR book a few weeks ago. I'm not real sure what 180 I can do at this point. We haven't had any contact in over 10 days. The last month or more has just been legal stuff and more or less of being mean. I know nobody has the magic phrase or answer to my problem to fix this sitch. I guess I'm looking for people here that have had a similar sitch that have pulled it back around and made their marriage better and stronger. I would say I'm on TLR.

If going through the entire story of what happened and what was said I can.

Any help or suggestions are always welcome.