Hey TVS..keeping up with your sitch and always hoping that your H will finally start peeping out of the tunnel. Seems, he's not ready yet. I'm disappointed, to say the least, that he hasn't seen the light yet...But never disappointed in your continued strength and sense of humour which always makes me smile, and obviously carries you through this tough time. I need to detach from your situation as I really feel myself getting emotional about his behaviour. I'm trying to DB your H! I know you love him and of course, I would never wish anything bad to happen...only what I know would be the best thing that could happen...a big wake up call!
Do you think he may be planning on moving out? Seems strange behaviour indeed. Given he has never had the courage to come clean and stop the lying and sneaking around, maybe he intends to leave the home and instead of announcing it, he is slowly sneaking clothes out of the house. Maybe you won't notice, if he's real clever about it...der.