Ok guys, I have been doing awesome with GAL. I have not had much time with W over the past week. When we have been together it has been upbeat and pleasant. I have just made a point to go do "stuff". Now tonight W is staying in the other room. She has not done this in a while now. She gave no explanation and I didn't ask. I was putting our girls to bed and while I was gone she went to the other room.
I have said this before and caught some heat on here but it seems like the more I GAL and the more I withdraw (lovingly), the more W withdraws. We have been getting along so much better recently and now she goes to the other room to sleep. I don't get it. I only saw her for about 10 minutes on Friday. I was gone with the girls all day on Saturday. We met W for dinner which went well. Came home and the girls and W stayed downstairs and I went upstairs to watch TV. I didn't really see her the rest of the night.
So I wonder. Is my GAL and withdrawing pi$$ing her off? Is she happy about it and just trying to accelerate the process of our going our separate ways? I know that this is all mind reading. But Michelle says to do what works and this doesn't seem to be working. It seems we are going the wrong direction.
Do I try to hang around her more at home? Not follow her around but, like tonight, should I have stayed downstairs for a while with everyone?
So frustrated!!!
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
