It is easy to tell when a person is approachable and when they are not. You are probably so consumed in what you are dealing with that you give the impression of not being approachable.

Just let your guard down and let people talk to you. Flirt a little. Relax. Be yourself. All you want to do is have some conversation. You know this. Let yourself enjoy the night out instead of thinking about what you've been dealing with lately.

Remember, YOU are in control. YOU make the choices as to what happens. YOU are pretty, funny, smart, interesting, and sexy!

You just need to KNOW it!!