I hear ya, girl. I know the done feeling all too well. But the thing is, I seem to feel it, then have this tiny shred of either doubt or hope or both that tells me I'm not quite at the end of my rope. Yet.

I've read that although the MLCer chooses someone who is the complete opposite of us (obviously!), they often try to make that person into a version of us. (Having them dress like us, taking them to the same places as us, etc.) Its like they're trying to create the beginning of our R all over again. Weird.

Sometimes I get the feeling that my H is trying to make up for any mistakes he made with me through the OW - that he's trying to prove to himself how great a guy he can be. Don't ask me why. Definitely not normal logic.

And the kids getting hurt IS the worst. Absolutely. Seeing our kids hurt is awful. I hate it.

Now more than ever, forget about his crazy a$$, and focus on you, your wonderful children, and that little bundle of joy that is going to make his arrival soon.

Hope you are feeling better this evening smile

Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."