OK,

A lot of people here may give me grief for saying this, but get yourself all dolled up (I mean REALLY nice.). Head out to a club with a girl friend. Not a group of girls, but one other girl. She will keep you out of trouble and give you someone to talk to.
See how many guys hit on you. That will let you know you are not someone to be set out at the curb.

Remember, this is ONLY an experiment and a tool to pump up your self esteem!! Don't do anything stupid!

Your husband is messing up (BADLY)!