I know I want to do what I can to save this M, but sometimes I look at W and think, can I just get on with life and do better. I know that sounds harsh but its mainly down to her attitude towards me right now.
It's all about perspective. How long did W try to make it work while she was unhappy? How many years did she stick it out, confused and not getting her LL?
So flip it....seems crappy to want to quit after a few months doesn't it?