hey - we're like little birds that sit stock still and don't move a feather- when threatened. if our "enemies" don't see the movement- we are safe.
i am with you- taking charge and grand gestures are not "me". time and patience and things unfolding in their own pace seem to be who i am more. it may not always be best - look at the mess i seem to have made of this mess of a r by assuming we loved each other and believing lies.
on the other hand- i , like you, find i am in my element by being myself and going with my gut- forcing myself to be flashy and take charge and like others - doesn't work for me.
we gotta be us- you know- frank sinatra says it , it must be true (joking) gotta be me.
we gotta be us- it's our "magic" we don't want to lose it or compromise it or hand it in for some dope tht's jacking us around.
very probably we are wonderful girls and people who deserve all the best things in life. that we don't always get them- well, who the heck does i guess. maybe just our turn for life to wack us- we will survive and prevail i'm pretty darn sure.
