Is there light at the end of the tunnel?

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks guys. I don't know what he wants. He gets on his soap box about "poor me" and "poor OW". I don't think he was really confiding in me. I just think he wanted to talk because he felt honestly likes to hear himself talk and I was "cornered" so to speak. Yikes!!!

I think he is trying to soften me up for what I take from the house and also he doesn't want to pay me maintenance. You all are correct in that he wants something or that he has an agenda. You better believe I have my guard up. There is no way I am letting my guard down. I'm not falling for his pity party. I just can't believe he would talk about OW's family issues like that with me. Number one like I care and number two would OW like that? I would be ticked if H was discussing my family issues with her. Boundaries!!!

I have noticed he has dropped the rope in some aspects. He doesn't wash every dish by hand now. He leaves them in the sink so I put them in the dishwasher. He asked me to do D's hair for dance this morning. He isn't trying to keep the kids from me. Now that things are almost settled with the kids he is going to start traveling again. So you were all right. The "Mr. Mom-ness" isn't lasting.

I took my chain maille class on Thursday and now I am hooked. I am planning on taking another. My social calendar is filling up nicely. Later today I am meeting my friends from DivorceCare for coffee and tomorrow is S's party so that will go quickly. Making cookies right now for S to take to school tomorrow. Watching "It's Complicated" and it's hitting a little too close to home. At least I'm laughing about it.

WH