From what i have gathered from this board my sitch does seem like MLC..
As in all good memories erased.. no significance to the decision behind adopting.. indifference to impact on a doting child.. a child who thinks he is the ultimate dad.
however he has affaired up.. our marraige was not fantastic as indicated by many sitches here pre bomb.. claims a need to flirt has been there since 8 years .. started with an EA which lasted 3 months around the time of my miscarraige where i was physically and emotionally unavailable to him. yes it does indicate he has been in replay for the last 8 years .. this time ow also available and crisis seems more intense.. interms of getting a slip disc.. (depression depletes vitaminnn D in the body).. so is this mlc considering a rocky marraige pre bomb and affaired up so to speak.. also agree with some people here that MC does not help in mlc cases as he just keeps reiterating those 15 yr old issues and adds more along the conversation..picks up something the counselor says, twists to his advantage and feels validated and vindicated.. by the end of the session feel like banging both their heads together , her for givinng him a small crack to barge in !! counselor feels a seperation will give him some clarity..he refuses to move out..
shd i ask the counselor to convince him to move out..he has said he will move out of the bedroom if i dont move out and technically we are seperated as per laws over here.. any thoughts..
hoper me-40,H41 M-15 S-6 Looks like MLC,living together
