Can anyone out there give me some clear advice on what I should do at this point. Let me give you a little information as to were we are at currently.
We have been seperated for slightly over one month. The first week of seperation was more of the same behavior from me. Argueing, blaming, accusing and questioning. Since then I have began to implement 180's and then the LRT. My WAW and I have not communicated at ALL for 3 weeks. I am beginning to think I should inititate contact within the next week or so. I was thinking about just saying Hi and letting her know that I trust she will make the right decision about the divorce. In other words "agreeing" to her decision. I planned on keeping it very short and sweet.
I keep reading that I should keeep the lines of communication open if I want any chance of reconciliation. However, I understand that the LRT requires her to contact me. I am just confused on how long I should go no contact for?
So I guess my question is should I initiate friendly conversation soon? Or do I just stay dark with no contact at all.
I am getting very anxious and I feel like my wife is slipping away.
I should add that we only communicate through email currently and we are 1 month into the divorce proceedings.
Love my wife and cannot stop thinking about her everyday. I am GAL, getting counseling and working on me currently which I think is going along pretty well. My wife is very stubborn . what also worries me is that she has turned her family and friends against me so I feel that getting her to give me a second chance will show her as "weak" to her friends and family. Because she preaches about having strenght to walk away.
Sorry for long message
M 33 W 32 M 6 months S 1 month
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13
