I was thinking about what you said about this time, rH, its hard to wait/watch for who they are at this time...it is nerve-wracking for me sometimes...when she goes within:

-is it the depression?
-is it guilt or stuff like that?
-is she processing stuff?
-is all this too much for her and she wants to run again?
-is she wavering to the "other life"?
-did a cyber OM come back sniffing around?
-did she meet up with PA OM again?
-etc, etc

This morning she is still withdrawn and before I left to keep me busy and out of my own way, I asked her this time (haven't in a long time) if I was doing, or not doing anything, if I was doing right by her...she said no, that it was her....ugh, or "okay"? Just don't know what to make of it....

It's like the other discussions here recently about when the mlc'er is being nice to the lbs and you just don't know what is going on, if you can trust it...but different feel and trust level at this stage they are in, if I am making any sense here...lol.

Okay, journal mental meanderings done.

T^2

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm