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[JRG]

denza,

I've been following your thread since you started it. I'm in a similar sitch in which my wife told me that she wanted to move out and a few weeks later she did just that. She complained that I didn't pay much attention to her, just like your sitch.

I can't offer much advice but I just wanted you to know that I'm feeling much the same way as you. It's hard. It hurts to be away from her. I too feel like if she only knew how much this has opened my eyes. I wish marriage came with all these lessons at the start...unfortunately most of us have to learn the hard way.

Hang in there, have hope, and if anything we'll be better men as a result.