I see that as probably the case. We aren't reconciled until we are reconciled. Trying to stay optimistically cautious. We have already been through this dog and pony show once. Early on after I pulled my head out so to speak, W starts being nice and somewhat affectionate. I assumed we were getting back together, she reacts with anger, I overreact, bad scene. That whole situation set us back months I think. I have no intention of resetting the timer again.


Me-36 W-31
M-7
S-5
BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand

Seeking means: to have a goal
Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal