Hi FY, thanks i'm getting there.

Casino was def a one off. I have been a couple of times before but a good few years ago and never been a betting man. It was actually stepson who was going with a couple of mates. I decided to go originally to keep an eye on them and made S leave his wallet at home. I don't encourage it but he is 19 so I cant really stop him. Figured the best way was to tag along.

It turned out a good night and not what I expected. I took S and his mates out for a meal afterwards with the winnings and for once became the cool dad! not sure if thats a good or bad thing smile

You are right about the image and for ourselves. I do wonder if I will ever get to the place of full detachment with no expectations! she is being overly nice at the moment and I can't help but feel suspicious.

and grief a 75 gallon tank...you could fish in that!