i just wanted to say that i think you handled all this with such strength and dignity (as usual.) i love the answer you gave to his question about the OW. perfect, you handed responsibility for his choices and his life right back to him.
i applaud you for taking the pain and hurt of this time in your life to create an opportunity to help others. i think that is what i admire most in a person (i think of nelson mandela and how he used his imprisonment to lay a foundation for equality for many and for a forgiveness the world has rarely seen.) you, and others here, make me think more about who i want to be in the world. thank you.
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13