explain how replying back hours, or next day or not at all...works? feels just wrong to not reply.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
Because they wonder why you haven't replied. They wonder what you must be busy doing.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
Yes WFM! It seems like petty game playing. That's what [censored] about this. It would be so much easier if you could just sit down work it all in counseling together or something like that. But the chemicals in the human brain do not function like that unfortunately. This is why these techniques have to be used
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
but it seems like such a game... I'd be afraid he would see right through that.. I am attached to my phone, he knows this.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
so... kinda deflated today, guess thats because I had/have expectations. This sure is tough!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
yep.. I know, and I am acknowledging it. Did you ever feel iike that too in your sitch?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
Grrrr... h just fixed my car, drove it here & then I drove him back. He was mentioning about his mom being out & that he was ordering a pizza. How can he prefer to sit alone tonight with pizza but not me & D? I would have loved to be invited for pizza tonight. He didn't, so I grabbed my tail and left. I then texted him: "thank you for fixing my/D car, it means alot that you take the time to make sure we are ok"... he doesn't reply. My D sends a message 5 mins later, he responds to her!....GRRRRRR.
Geez, what happened to him being nice & texting/calling? Where did that nice guy go?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
