I agree about not talking to FIL. Cut out the people that are not dealing with you in kindness and love. You do not need that in your life. Makes me mad for you actually.

I'm sorry it was such a stressful day. I can only imagine. I just can't understand how the WAS can be so entangled in another R at the time of marital crisis and breakdown. The more I step away the more I can only imagine the internal turmoil and the reason why so many WAS believe that a D is a solution. Lost is what they are.

You Tori are not lost though. So when the lost try to pull you away simply smile at them in love and continue on your path. Hopefully one day the will see you guiding light ahead.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home