I guess you are right, I am playing the blame game whilst saying how bad that is. It is very frustrating for me because my wife does blame me for a lot of whats going on for her and it is difficult navigate around her anger. Its not impossible but its very challenging.
How long will her anger go on for?..its been going for 3-4 months now and I thought it would soften when she took her ring off or announced she no longer wanted to continue the M. It has probably only got worse and my dissapointment stems from expectations that I should not have had in the first place.
I guess this is where the lesson of patience kicks in? And also your quotes on detaching. Rather than say "her anger is throwing me off my goals" i should accept that this is the situation/ challenge I face and find ways to navigate around it in a solution focused and positive way and just keep on truckin'
Keep positive in the face of adversity...I need to practice this all the time!!
Me - 37 W - 37 M -5 T - 15
S=5 S=3
Seperated - 12/12 BD - 20/03/13 Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.
