Isn't it just common courtesy when you are leaving town for the night to at least let someone know when you left? Ugh! Just venting here so I don't say it to her.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
Isn't it just common courtesy when you are leaving town for the night to at least let someone know when you left? Ugh! Just venting here so I don't say it to her.
Have you ever asked her to keep you posted of her comings and goings? If you haven't, you should. Not because you want to keep a leash on her, but because you guys are running a household and raising kids together.
Make it all about respect for one another, and practicalities, not control. She can go out, but you deserve to be made aware, just like you would do with her. Set up some boundaries on this or she will continue to walk all over you. The sooner the better. The longer you let this go, the more backlash you'll get.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
I have been struggling recently with how to approach things like this with her. She definitely did things in the marriage that I would like to change but I figured if I brought those things up now that would just add fuel to the fire and pi$$ her off. Seems also like R talk which i am trying to avoid. It needs to be brought up but I am not sure if now is the right time. In general, we have been getting along much better over the past few weeks.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
