Just a couple of times on this page only, you were all the sun shines because of you, one minute, and what a b!tch the next because she didn't write back, and then Oh she wrote back it's all good. Why do you call someone you supposedly love a b!tch? Why would you be interested in being with a b!tch? Do you think she would feel at all kindly toward you if she knew that's what you were thinking whenever she doesn't drop everything and write back to your text?
I believe you are doing a common thing, that is hiding hurt behind anger. It is going to hurt your relationships, this one and any others. I would suggest you try learning better coping skills, primarily not reacting emotionally before you give time to pass and calm down and see what the real situation is, and also not going straight to name-calling when you legitimately feel offended.
At the very least, you may feel better about yourself as a person if you're more generous with your emotions, giving someone the benefit of the doubt and being kind. They may not even really deserve it, if you're into bean-counting, but it's for you as much as for them. It's about who you are.
I hope you find this perspective thought-provoking and not insulting; you seem like a good guy but very reactive.
You're right, thanks for the reminder, adinva.
I think it helps if we remember that our spouses are doing what they do, for them, not to us.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
