Still treading water

[Grizz]

I have been struggling recently with how to approach things like this with her. She definitely did things in the marriage that I would like to change but I figured if I brought those things up now that would just add fuel to the fire and pi$$ her off. Seems also like R talk which i am trying to avoid. It needs to be brought up but I am not sure if now is the right time. In general, we have been getting along much better over the past few weeks.