bean counting = I sent her a nice text and she didn't write back, so she's a B. This is not the time to keep score, in fact keeping score anytime in a marriage is not good, but especially not now.

Hope you have a good night...

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.