Our child support hearing is coming up on Monday. I'm not sure how I am going to make it through. I don't want to come off as a jerk, but I'm really not interested in letting him off easy. I want every dime I can get from him. Our kids deserve to maintain the lifestyle they were raised in. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can detach by Monday?
Really, I doubt anything you do or say would change the outcome of this. Generally, it's a formula, and there's not a lot of variance. I'd let the attorneys do their job.
That said, I think you need to get in the mindset of doing what is best for you and the kids without being vindictive or trying to punish your H. I certainly hear some of that in your words.
