I spent 18 months being silent as he walked all over me.
I spent 18 months taking the blame for everything.
I am not answering him for him I am going to answer him for me and my children.
"First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out-- Because I was not a Socialist. Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out-- Because I was not a Trade Unionist. Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out-- Because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me--and there was no one left to speak for me."
Nothing I say or don't say will bring my H any closer to being part of my family. Being silent is passive aggresively punishing him and also hurting my mental state.
I will answer at some point, not for him but for me
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13