I never liked giving oral, but I found out by chance that when I am pushed into it, it turns me on. I am not sure why, but I never liked receiving oral and bascially just want the feeling of being entered.
Last nite was a typical scenario for us: I reached over to "cuddle" him ( he seems intimidated if I actually initiate more directly) and he pulled me down for oral which gets us both going... at some point he recognizes his "obligation" to f**k me, and will position me and off we go.
What was special about last nite was that he stayed inside me for a long time; we even sort of dozed off, and afterwards, no negative comments about the time and such. Maybe he is feeling less "engulfed" by my higher desire, as Julie puts it.
IHJ---learning a lot of psych on this board...or maybe becoming psycho
