I am an extrovert, but love being alone...weird that. Also timely that I just had this convo about the space between stimulus and response with H this morn....not exactly Frankl, but the fact that I would go with whatever was in my head at the time and he would push all his feelings down. I remarked that it was a wonder our marriage lasted as long as it did
This led to the conversation about how he is now saying what he feels, whereas I am waiting to sift through whether or not response is an emotional knee jerk and why. He also mentioned that I am an aloud thinker and this is how I process things, I am not looking for affirmation or negation necessarily, just talking myself through the process. Once he realized that (too late obviously lol) it was easier to discuss things.
I find it funny weird how stuff keeps popping up on here and in my life simultaneously.
What are you thinking about in terms of extrovertion? Scaling back, or are you finding a middle ground these days?
