You are going again to the worse case scenario. You don't know that she will get everything she's asking.

As AS said, the courts don't care if you can afford it or if you continue in the lifestyle to which you are accustomed.

She shouldn't have to take all the financial hit for something that you're both responsible for.

You didn't answer the daughter question.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss