I am pretty sure that the ancient Egyptians didn't just drop the pyramids into the sand as a complete unit....{although the Aliens could have, but unless you are an Alien, stick with me here : ) }
Mach - I usually agree with most of what you say (or at least the parts I understand) but the pyramids were dropped down as a complete unit. I asked the alien that has taken over my W's body and she confirmed that some of them were in fact dropped by her peeps...
2.5 - Don't believe her when she says she's miserable. My W is always telling me things (I was cause of her illness (it's genetic so figure that one out), she never loved me, I ruined every moment of her life, we're just friends, blah, blah, blah. Sad but anymore I believe more of what comes out of my S5's mouth than I do hers and he's got a huge imagination.
And I agree with the others...your goals need to be refined to be more about you and what you can do.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
I took one for the team to try and clarify how the pyramids were built.
Originally Posted By: Spartan
we're just friends, blah, blah, blah.
Yes I'm quoting myself because I feel that good today . For the record she's never said that I'm her friend and wasn't referencing me. She's said maybe we can be friends after D but...
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
2.5 - Don't believe her when she says she's miserable. My W is always telling me things (I was cause of her illness (it's genetic so figure that one out), she never loved me, I ruined every moment of her life, we're just friends, blah, blah, blah. Sad but anymore I believe more of what comes out of my S5's mouth than I do hers and he's got a huge imagination.
People can only give outwardly, what they feel internally....
What they chose to show us, is all of the hurt that they have inside of them, because yes, we still stir that emotion in them.
They will lash out, and say whatever they know will hurt the most.
It doesn't mean that it is true, although it is very true to them...
It doesn't make them crazy, or wrong, or anything.
It means that they are hurting too...
Lashing out at the person that knows them the best, and is the most danger to seeing right through them.
So, while they may not be true, there is value in their words...
Sigh...now that one does sting a little. I hate thinking about her hurting and the things I did in the past to cause that hurt. I really dislike knowing that she still sees that in me and I still stir those emotions.
I know my part and that, my friend, is what I own and am doing everything in my power to change... That's where the validation and empathy come from.
It's a lot easier to think she's either crazy or an alien.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
Are they really hurting inside? They do a damn good job of covering it up. Acting like they are on top of the world and that this is truly what they want. Either they aren't hurting or they deserve an Oscar.
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
Are they really hurting inside? They do a damn good job of covering it up. Acting like they are on top of the world and that this is truly what they want. Either they aren't hurting or they deserve an Oscar.
Yeah I think so. I see ever so slight signs of doubt in W's eyes occasionally. Not very often but just the odd time. If you think about it part of DB for us is to act 'as if' and have PMA even when we are feeling down, so I guess they are just doing the same, to convince themselves to stay on track and they are doing the right thing acting 'as if' makes them feel good about it.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
. For the record she's never said that I'm her friend and wasn't referencing me. She's said maybe we can be friends after D but...