If you now say you want to fix things and she doesn't, how does a court quantify that? Your W could then say for years she tried to fix things and you didn't, so she gave up. I think that's how no-fault D was born. 2 people can't make it work, but were both a part of the good things in the M as well as the breakdown of the M, so split things to make each as whole as possible and go with life.
If this was happening to your D, how would you counsel her?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
