Quote: I still make an effort to give her an O every time we ML. Usually I end up getting her aroused up to an O and then as she is in the afterglow, it is my turn. At that point she is willing but not ‘an active participant’. If I just ‘go to it’ without raising her arousal, it is very mechanical and not very fulfilling. I have tried getting her ‘close’ to an O, and then entering but she is disappointed that I didn’t just finish her O. She doesn’t seem to like oral by me, and seldom (almost never) reciprocates. Wow, that’s a lot of sexual details to throw out there….
My first thought is that she needs to take responsibility for her own orgasm/arousal. Would you be offended if she,for instance, provided her own clitoral stimulation as you had sex with her or flipped you into a position where she could get a better "grind' or "grip".
My second thought is why don't you "finish her off" after the sex if she didn't orgasm during it?
If she doesn't like oral sex it is probably for one of the following reasons. She is uncomfortable with her own genitals, she is being overstimulated by your technique, she feels like you'll be disappointed if she doesn't orgasm so the pressure ruins it for her or you need a better razor.
Frankly, I think only very HD women do like giving head. There is nothing objectively appealing about the experience.
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