WOW... I think I will pat myself on the back today, and just sit tight.
I guess he is missing all of us... first text to d yesterday, then me, and now for him to call and want to get the cat even?... LOL WOW!!
Slow your roll! You REALLY need to reign in those expectations. You're getting WAY too excited everytime your H texts or calls. These are nothing more than baby steps on a long, long road to possible reconciliation. I remember seeing some signs like this early on that really got my hopes up, I thought we were well along the road to recovery and that unlike everyone else my sitch was different and I was going to beat the odds and reconcile quickly. Yet here I am almost 10 months post-BD still in limbo. Looking back I can see now that I was getting excited over things that were little more than my W just being a nice person.
So just settle down, accept that your sitch is not going to miraculously heal overnight and keep your eyes on the distant goal instead of the day-to-day fluctuations.
You REALLY need to reign in those expectations. You're getting WAY too excited everytime your H texts or calls. These are nothing more than baby steps on a long, long road to possible reconciliation. I remember seeing some signs like this early on that really got my hopes up, I thought we were well along the road to recovery and that unlike everyone else my sitch was different and I was going to beat the odds and reconcile quickly. Yet here I am almost 10 months post-BD still in limbo. Looking back I can see now that I was getting excited over things that were little more than my W just being a nice person. 