Think of it this way...

You need some goals to keep YOU moving forward...

I am pretty sure that the ancient Egyptians didn't just drop the pyramids into the sand as a complete unit....{although the Aliens could have, but unless you are an Alien, stick with me here : ) }

And I'm pretty sure that they did not put the top, pointed block, on first....

Small pieces of the puzzle, one piece at a time , and slowly construct a foundation towards the ultimate goal, which is reconciliation....


All of those small blocks, that are the foundation, are all pieces of yourself, that you have to shape and size so that they fit into place when people see the bigger picture....

AFTER all of your pieces are in place, then it is possible, for the top to be put on...



So, some small MEASURABLE goals, that do not have the word "wife, spouse, mate, partner, W, the Pope, the Mrs. , fiance, my MIL's daughter, etc..." in them...

Those goals, that are for you, to start your foundation....


1-I want to go back to school, to become a 2.5
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Like that buddy...