I think its really interesting that you all agree no response necessary. I think not responding is passive aggressive and that even if its just for my own statisfaction I reply something like,

"Generally I am not friends with people that hurt my kids"

"I am mad at you because you think its acceptable to have your girlfriend accompany you with our children to events where that is inappropriate"

"You make me angry because you have no awareness of my feelings. That having your girlfriend attend an event instead of the kids mother is heartbreaking"

"You continually break my heart because although our girls find your girlfriend nice, they constantly ask me why mommy couldnt come."

"you haven't earned my friendship"

"FU you clueless MFer"

..

On another note. I read a funny story the other day about Mark Sanford, former governor of South Carolina, who resigned a few years ago after running off to Argentina with OW.

Apparently he is running for a Senate seat in his home state and asked his exW, who was his campaign manager while they were married, if she would run his current campaign, he added that of course this time he would pay her.

Clueless!


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13