Similar situation. Had no idea. H took off his ring. I am still wearing mine. Need to learn to validate, however h really says nothing freely other than convo about kids. I don't bring up any r talk. Still have a tendency to pursue ie text messages, emails. Know I need to let it go. Just so very hard. I have to learn to not respond with sarcasm.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13