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Re: Actually, for me this is AIMING VERY LOW! #233612 05/13/04 03:48 AM
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NotATLDave Member N Joined: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,069	Folks, My W asked me for a list of specific things that I wanted so I gave this "guide" to my W. The sex got worse. Things didn't change at all until I started doing the Passionate Marriage stuff. This list is only good when your LD partner wants to be "very" involved in the recovery. The post from the Johanna convinced me to give it to W. But now I see that the people on this site LD or HD are the motivated partner and would be inclined to be more open to new ideas. Most of us don't have the luxury of a motivated LD. My advice is to avoid using this guide. You will get your spouse more aroused by firmly (yet lovingly) looking her in the eyes and saying..."I want to ML to you at least....", then let them figure out how to get there. The more we try to "fix" things the more we make ourselves look like dorks. Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright

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CeMar's LD Guide to HD spouses...slightly modified	Meatpuppet	01/20/04 04:30 PM
Good job, sounds even better!!!!! *	CeMar	01/20/04 05:49 PM
Re: Good job, sounds even better!!!!! *	Meatpuppet	01/21/04 02:06 PM
Actually, for me this is AIMING VERY LOW!	CeMar	01/21/04 05:12 PM
Re: Actually, for me this is AIMING VERY LOW!	Johanna	01/21/04 05:50 PM
Re: Actually, for me this is AIMING VERY LOW!	HDsocal	05/12/04 02:49 PM
Re: Actually, for me this is AIMING VERY LOW!	NotATLDave	05/13/04 03:48 AM
Is there any way to encourage change from the LD?	CeMar	05/13/04 04:03 AM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the LD?	Tim2point0	05/13/04 10:19 AM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the LD?	NotATLDave	05/13/04 10:11 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	HDsocal	05/14/04 12:54 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	Tim2point0	05/14/04 01:07 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	HDsocal	09/03/04 04:01 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	Tim2point0	09/03/04 04:26 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	MJontheMend	09/03/04 05:05 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	cinemanymph	09/03/04 05:22 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	MJontheMend	09/03/04 05:42 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	heavyheart	09/03/04 05:47 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	cinemanymph	09/03/04 05:51 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	InherJourney	09/03/04 06:22 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	HDsocal	09/03/04 06:33 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	sat567	09/03/04 06:57 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	TheNewChris	09/05/04 11:26 AM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	Bube	09/07/04 12:24 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	HDsocal	09/07/04 03:53 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	HDsocal	09/03/04 06:11 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	heavyheart	09/03/04 06:25 PM
Re: Is there any way to encourage change from the	MJontheMend	09/03/04 06:30 PM
Re: CeMar's LD Guide to HD spouses...slightly modified	cinemanymph	09/03/04 05:33 PM

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