LOL! was i ever needy?? i'm laughing now. absolutely! i was just like you!
but, when i stopped looking to him to make me happy (by meeting my need to feel love from him, get attention from him, call me, text me, show me he still loved me, talk about us being back together, etc.), we were able to be nice to each other without a payoff.
so, yes, i was very needy for about 6 months. each day i got a little better (very little but it was progress). the last six months of our separation, i was able to see myself happy without him. THAT'S when he started getting closer to me.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing