Main Goal: I will become a better person for myself and by doing so I will become the person my W fell in love with. She will be become attracted to me once more, and fall back in love with me.
Smaller steps to this final goal:
Goal 1 : Rather than sit in separate parts of the house, we will spend time together in the evening, watch TV etc.
Goal 2: Talk of the future will be more positive and less about going our own ways.
Goal 3: We will begin to talk about taking the kids away on holiday.
Goal 5: Rather than finding it unthinkable to go out for a drink, meal or cinema. I would like to be able to do this, even as just friends to begin with.
Goal 6: We will start to introduce more physical contact, even if just a touch or a hug.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
