Yes, I understand what you are saying, they all come across as me controlling how W will be. I think I need to re-write these and post again. I'll be back!!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.