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Definitely not in my opinion. Why do anything to help Divorce when you don't want it?


True, I only worry that its leads to more of the same (as Papa4life says below).

Maybe this is where i start to think about boundaries? I will lead to the point where its helping our lifestyle improve, and ensuring I have thought about things for my own good for when / if we S or D. But anything beyond that I pull back from.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.