GTO and Busting, thank you!
I'm leaving for the meeting with my H. Got all the tax docs. We also have to solve a new issue with the health insurance. The fun never ends.
GTO, I would not give him R advice, but if he wants to be a better person, I'll help him. I don't want to withhold my wisdom/desire to help others.
Busting, I'll do what I feel it's best. I doubt he'll bring up the OW. I also doubt he will acknowledge today is our church anniversary, so I won't mention it. I know he remembers, though.
Wish me luck!