Right onto my goals, these are not too different as I have not really reached any to move them on yet. Would be great to feel like W is not avoiding contact - even touching when passing something at the moment!

  • W to discuss future plans for holidays. At the moment its always avoided.
  • W to stop talking about being separated in the future.
  • W to sit in same room as me to watch TV at night.
  • We will go out for a meal / cinema together
  • W will stop avoiding physical contact with me
  • W will begin to slow down on negative comments towards me and my actions.


Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.