Hi Reb... I like your goal... Do as you say !! Have a good time, no expectations, and DETACH (regardless of h's mood/weirdness), have your own good time for you and your daughter! Show your strength (attractive). If you cannot do that, then "act as if" = same results !!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)