I found Limbo Land

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I do need some advice - yes i am having a bad day today so maybe this is not helping my thought pattern.

Seems my W expects me to sort everything. I get the feeling she annoyed and frustrated because I am not sorting and thinking about every issue that needs to be dealt with as we work slowly towards D (for instance how sharing kids custody will work out). Quite frankly its because I don't want to do some of these things, because it will make the path to D quicker and easier for W. But more to the point, W seems to be wanting me to lead - and does not seem willing to do these things herself.

Do I show that I can take the lead and be more decisive (which is something I lacked before now in our R - before i was more controlling in a parent / child style) even though its leading on things I really don't want to do??