Two positive steps (Patientman- thanks for the "180"- that was cool of you - much appreciated)
Two 180's recognized by my wife.
The first was a few days/week ago- I cant believe how clean the house is. I cant believe it
THEN Last night I went shopping for properly fitting clothes last night (Ive lost 46 lbs since the BD). before I always wore baggy with a belt. After buying the clothes I brought them home and tried them on- I was almost too self conscience to wear them today....
Well- lets 180!. Im wearing them today and my wife saw me in them and started giggling like a schoolgirl " WOW have you lost alot of weight- you look real good!". - and all i said was "THANK YOU" nothing else
I am beginning to learn something that all you wise DB'ers prob know but cant share or we dont understand because we are in the funk- when your self esteem rises detaching gets a little easier
I shall learn the ways of the DB jedimasters!:)
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
Last night I went shopping for properly fitting clothes last night (Ive lost 46 lbs since the BD). before I always wore baggy with a belt. 
