Yeah, peaceful parallel parenting with no conflict and no emotional connection of any kind is what I think my H wants out of "co-parenting." and he can have that, after all, you're not going to change him.

Maybe you start out now just tolerating each other but you never know what it will become. I'm not suggesting that it will be a love R but you may actually be co-parents some day in the future.

You only have to worry about today.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss